Enhance Your Sensibility
Life is not a bed of roses for everyone. Only a few people lead comfortable lives, otherShave to struggle hard in life to reach their goal.
We people have to face tough situations and problems of life with sensibility, else we may end up in creating double trouble for ourselves.
Just imagine for instance, that Mr. X is driving a car and Mr. Y is a truck driver. All of a sudden Mr. Y collides with Mr. X because of driving rashly. Mr. X becomes very angry and furiously rush before the truck driver to argue with him, but the truck driver is a shrewd person. He doesn’t realise his fault but kills Mr. X by colliding the truck with him once again. This example portrays that Mr. X had not dealt the situation with sensibility, thus has lost his life.
It was not right for Mr. X to argue with a shrewd person who didn’t realise his folly. Instead of quarreling with him Mr. X should have noted down the truck number and reported this matter to the police. It would have been better if he would have taken a few’ witnesses alongwith him. Any rash action in. our life could lead us to misfortune, therefore, we have to deal ‘every problem with sensibility.
Here are some tips through which we can enhance our sensibility and avoid making a big issue out of a small issue.
Don’t ever get angry on trivial matters. Take a balanced approach towards the problems of life and solve them patiently. Don’t take any hasty decision. Remember, haste makes waste.
Use some polite adjectives, when you chance to convince others why they are wrong. You may say, “Brother, you are wrong by insulting your parents, who have given birth to you. You must respect your parents and serve them as now they are old. I am saying so because, I consider myself your brother and it’s my duty to bring love and harmony in your house.” Explain to the wrong doer that your suggestions shall be beneficial for him as well as his family members.
If anybody is troubling you without any rhyme or reason, then call him up at your house or visit his home’s and politely ask him the reason, why he keeps on troubling you. Convince him that it’s not right for a person to create hassles in other’s lives. The people who create difficulties for others land up in miserable situations themselves one day.
If your child is not doing well in studies, then don’t always blame the teacher for it. Some children don’t concentrate on studies, how much ever hard they are pressurized to do so. Spare some time for your child once in a week and teach him yourself.
Blaming the teacher for child’s mistakes would do you no good. The teacher shall get annoyed and stop taking further interest in your child.
Finally, one word .is the solution for all problems, is patience. Handle all problems patiently and all your problems shall get solved one by one.