Contentment
The state of mind called “contentment” depends much more on our character than on the amount of our possessions. The discontented man may be heard to say that, if he were as rich as some neighbour whom he envies, he would be perfectly satisfied. Give him the particular amount of wealth that he has set his mind upon, and he will find some still richer man to envy, and be as discontented as ever. “A small coin of silver, as the Persian poet, Sadi, says, “Makes a beggar contented; Faridun with his kingdom of Persia is half satisfied. The possibility of remaining discontented in spite of success and prosperity arises from the in Satiable nature of our desires, and the common tendency always too long for something better than our present condition. What is out of our reach seems valuable till we get it, and when possessed loses its value, so that it is natural for us to be always dissatisfied. This is unfortunately the character of most men.
There are, however, some happily constituted person’s who are by nature endowed with a contented frame of mind it is also possible to cultivate a spirit of contentment. As discontents is nourished by the habit of comparing ourselves with Our more fortunate neighbours, and thinking of the desirable things we have not got, those who wish to be contented should by an effort of will think of the blessings they enjoy and compare themselves rather with those who are less fortunate than themselves. Hardly anyone in the world is so unfortunate as no to have many good things to be thankful for. Although a man may be very poor, he may be blessed with good health and enjoy the society of congenial friends. Another man is stationed in a lonely situation where he has no one to associate with, but perhaps he has a taste for reading, and is thereby able to enjoy the companionship of the great writers of all ages. The man who considers himself over-worked should remember that he would be much more inclined to be miserable if he had nothing to do. Even those, who are afflicted by ill-health, the greatest of all sources of unhappiness, can often console themselves with the thought of the sympathy and kindness they have received from friends and relations, the depth of whose affections would never have been revealed to them had they been strong and well.
There is also one source of satisfaction which is entirely independent of fortune, namely, the satisfaction of having always tried to do what is right. Fortune may deprive us of. wealth, reputation, friends and health, but cannot force us to disobey conscience so that whatever blows evil destiny may inflict upon us, it is always possible to provide for ourselves the deep satisfaction that follows from the fulfillment of duty. This kind of satisfaction is not only attainable by everybody, but also nobler than any other.
For it must be remembered that all contentment is not equally praiseworthy, and that sometimes discontent is preferable to contentment. As a rule, contentment should be aimed at, because it is the surest way of obtaining happiness. But there are circumstances under which it is right to refuse to be contented and happy. It is blameworthy to be contented to regulate our conduct in life by a low ideal, and to know the better course and follow the worse. It is blameworthy to consent to remain ignorant when we might obtain knowledge. The great fault of the Irish peasantry is want of a proper feeling of discontent. Their standard of comfort is so low that they make no strenuous effort to better their condition and provide themselves and their families with better houses and clothes. The same fault maybe found with the peasantry of India, who are contented with wages too small to enable them to bring up their families in health and comfort.
While discontent occasioned by the greater prosperity, of others is base envy, a similar feeling produced by the contemplation of the misery of others is the surest sign of a benevolent nature. It was this noble kind of discontent that moved Howard to devote his life to the amelioration of the condition of prisoners, and made it impossible for Buddha to live happily in his father’s palace.
